My Story
For most of my life, I believed that achievement defined worth.
Growing up in Germany as the eldest of three after my mother’s early death, I took on responsibilities well beyond my years. Resilience wasn’t a choice — it was survival. I buried my emotions and performed. Whether leading large international teams, competing as a world-class trampolinist, or working high-pressure events like the London 2012 Olympics, the drive to “succeed at all costs” shaped me.
And yet, success came at a cost.
Twelve years ago, I burned out. It was a wake-up call that forced me to pause, reflect, and rebuild — not just my career, but my entire life philosophy. That pivotal moment began a journey of self-discovery, one that continues to this day.
After a deeply personal disappointment — missing out on a vice president role I was convinced was mine — I faced another crossroads. Instead of blaming the system, I chose to look inward, confronting the lingering wounds of seeking approval and feeling "not good enough."
Through it all, I learned: True leadership isn’t about titles, applause, or constant achievement.
It’s about how you lead yourself — especially when no one is watching.
Why I Coach
Coaching changed my life.
It helped me unpack years of limiting beliefs, reconnect with my authentic self, and find clarity even during chaos. Becoming an ICF ACC-certified coach, Gallup CliftonStrengths coach as well as an Authentic Confidence coach wasn’t just a professional step — it was a personal mission.
Today, I coach leaders who feel overwhelmed, exhausted, or stuck. Leaders who perform at the highest levels yet struggle internally. I help them move from surviving to thriving — anchored in authenticity, resilience, and joy.
My Approach
I believe leadership begins with radical self-awareness.
My coaching style is warm, direct, and deeply reflective. I create a safe, non-judgmental space where leaders can explore their inner world, confront old narratives, and build practical strategies for sustainable growth.
I draw from proven frameworks like Positive Intelligence, Authentic Confidence, CliftonStrengths, mindfulness practices, and decades of experience navigating the pressures of high-performance environments.
Clients often describe working with me as "transformative," "energizing," and "clarifying."
Outside of Work
When I’m not coaching, you’ll find me outdoors.
I enjoy running trails, gardening, or simply moving in nature. I have completed multiple marathons (including six New York Marathons), two Ironmans, and two TransAlpine runs, crossing the Alps on foot.
Fun fact: I was once a national champion in trampoline gymnastics, representing Germany at European and World Championships.
Movement and mindfulness are my fuel for a full, joyful life. My greatest joy, though, comes from time with my wife and our three children - they keep me grounded, inspired, and laughing every day.
Trusted by teams at:
Real Leaders. Real Results.
„Ralf created a space where I felt safe to open up in ways I never had before — even beyond a professional context. He listened deeply, challenged me thoughtfully, and always brought me back to my Why. His coaching helped me see the bigger picture and find solutions that truly fit me. It was a powerful and positive experience!”
Vanessa, Regional Sales Manager
„Hi Ralf! I've been on a mission to shake up my routines late ly - getting up earlier,
squeezing in some morning stretches, eating better, you know the drill.
And honestly, you've been a massive inspiration for it. Today, my fiancé texted me saying: ·„Let's be Ralf together· - which
officially makes you the definition of a healthy and productive lifestyle for us
I just wanted to say thank you, and I hope you realize the impact you're
making on people“
Magda, Program Manager
Working with Ralf felt like stepping into a space where I could truly be myself — no filters, no judgment. He listened with empathy, asked the right questions, and gently pushed me to explore perspectives I hadn’t considered. It was a focused and empowering experience that continues impacting my work daily.
Saskia, Director Legal